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A step-by-step guide to mastering the art of flirting

Flirtology is latest book from the world’s leading Flirtologist Jean Smith. It is the step-by-step dating guide to mastering the art of flirting for the 21st Century.

  • How can I tell when someone is flirting with me?
  • Why can’t I flirt with someone I find attractive?
  • How do I avoid rejection?
  • How can I be a more confident flirt?

Master the art of flirting! Flirtology is THE dating guide for the twenty-first century. in an age of swiping left and right, and hiding behind online profiles, this book shows you how to replace connectivity with connection.

Jean Smith is a social and cultural anthropologist and is the world’s leading authority on flirting. In Flirtology she debunks the myths that surround flirting in order to help you find love and make more connections. It helps you analyse what you are looking for in a potential partner, show you how to practice your interaction skills, and how to unlock your inner flirt. It will give you the confidence to speak to anyone, anywhere and get results – without ever compromising who you are. It’s not about games, rules or tricks – it’s about presenting your real self so that you will attract the right people for you.

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Here’s what people are saying on Amazon:

A Guide for all Age Groups

Read about this book in The Mail on line. The real thing doesn’t disappoint. With so much reliance on the Internet today it is reassuring to learn about how to find yourself on a human face to face level. Entertaining and very easy to read. – John Barnes

Brilliantly easy to follow and Jean Smith has some incredible tips and advice to impart

I loved this book. It’s so refreshing to hear a different take on flirting and just the general meeting and speaking to people. I love Jean Smith’s voice in it, it’s brilliantly easy to follow and she has some incredible tips and advice to impart. Even if you’re in a relationship, it’s the kind of book you’ll tap into regularly just to buff up your communication skills. Buy it. – Tracey D.

Your new best friend for Flirting
Whether you are single or not there is so much to learn for everyone in this funny, warm and wise book. Jean is amazing – a social anthropologist who explains concepts so clearly. What she writes just makes sense – from my favourite HOT APE (especially the arm touching – such a nice way to build rapport with anyone and everyone. But for me the best thing about this book is how POSITIVE it is. Jean’s kind and funny tone makes you feel that anything is possible. So many books about relationships make you feel like you have a huge and treacherous mountain to climb. Reading Flirtology you can’t wait to get outside and start flirting with everyone! This is the book you should buy all your favourite people for valentine’s day!
– A. Walker

Inspires Confident Communication

This friendly and insightful page turner gives a concise guide to being more sociable in the most complicated realm of dating. Although the basis is about finding romantic relationships, the learnings are easily adaptable to all social interactions. – Russ C.

A Dating Guide Worth Reading

Jean Smith’s energy and academic heft merge to make one fantastic (and extremely useful) read. – Lesley H.

Flirting is not just about dating. It’s about connecting with people

If your someone who lacks in self confidence and honestly does not even know when someone is flirting with you – this is the only book you need to read. I am now receptive when people are flirting and have the confidence how to react. All my single gals are getting a copy this year!– AJ