Flirt Dating Coaching


Speed dating. Internet dating. The latest app. You have tried them all and you are still single. You’re a smart person, but you’ve lost confidence in your ability to flirt. And, you’re at a loss for what to do next. The answer? A flirt dating coach.

Your friends (mostly married) are plentiful with their advice on how you can nab a partner, but they haven’t exactly been on the scene for a while so it feels like they are living vicariously through you rather than giving constructive dating advice. And, if you look a bit closer, you see that ‘advice’ from friends, is often linked to their own personal baggage. Right now, you probably feel a little stuck, a little despondent, and a little bit alone.

I know how confusing it can be to navigate the world of dating if you don’t have a map and compass, or a Flirt Dating Coach, who happens to be a social anthropologist on hand. I applaud your continued effort (and effort probably feels like the operative word). But, you can relax now, and breathe a huge sigh of relief, because you have found what you are looking for – the way forward.


What is flirting? How do I flirt? What is the correct dating etiquette? Why does everyone seem to be playing dating games? Don’t worry. I will help you through all of this.
As a social and cultural anthropologist, my background is in the science of human behaviour. It’s based on flirting and dating data that I have gleaned from my many years of studying people in thiJean teached people how to flirts area. My flirt dating advice is not based on, ‘Oh yeah, I did that once and it really worked’. Instead, I make personalised, tailored programmes for individuals based on anthropological research. (I wrote my Masters Dissertation comparing the flirting behaviour of people in the cities of London, NY, Stockholm and Paris).

This Social Scientific base is a useful and fresh way to approach this subjective and emotional area of flirting and dating. Using methodologies, like sample size and participant observation, I am able to help you separate what is ‘true’ from stuff your mind makes up. Thereby, enabling you to get past your mental stumbling blocks and follow the path that you want to be on.

But science on its own can be a bit dry, which is why I always try to include humour, warmth and kindness in everything I do. For me, that’s the only way I can learn. Therefore, that’s the only way that I teach. I’ve coached people to: help them find their partners, become more confident flirts, and to live better lives – this lasts well beyond our coaching sessions together – and is my ultimate goal for you.

How Jean Can Help You:

Jean Smith gives individual tuition for people looking for love

Your experience in the world of flirting and dating includes a sample size of one person…you! Sure, you might be on the receiving end of some helpful (and unhelpful) advice from your friends and Mothers. But, your whole experience in the flirt dating world is filtered through one person.Yes, again, just you!
As a flirt dating coach and social anthropologist, I am able to offer a more objective viewpoint. I have collated the experiences of thousands of people; through my research, group flirting tour lessons, talks and workshops, and flirt dating coaching. I have heard it all and, generally, most people have the same problems. Fortunately, I have tried and tested solutions to these problems. I know what gets results.

You can see what some of my happy clients say below. *Video testimonials do not represent the diversity of Flirtology clientele.

Is this for you?

Many people are hesitant to contact me at first. They don’t think that Flirtology flirt dating coaching will be right for them. Young men, women over 50, Divorcees and others, all question if Flirtology can help them, because they think it’s for other people. If you answer YES to the questions below, then your gender, age, or sexual orientation are not relevant. If you answered YES to these questions, then you and I are ready to work together.

  • Do you feel stuck in a never-ending cycle? Your dating life looks like Ground Hog’s day?
  • Are you tired of online dating and dating apps? It feels superficial and you are not getting the results that you want?
  • Are you tired of getting bad advice, or hearing the same old things repeated over and over, which you already know don’t work?
  • Do you feel that you are ready to go on this journey and you just need a trusted guide to gently lead you?
  • Do you want this process to be fun, exciting, rather than sad and stressful?
  • Do you feel like you are throwing loads of time, energy and money in this area, but getting little in return? Do you like streamlined efficiency? (I do!)
Flirtology group of people on the street having a fearless flirting lesson with Jean Smith

How It Works

What We Look At:

  • Where you can find potential, like-minded partners
  • Your list of 5 ‘Deal-Breakers’ for a potential partner; so you don’t go off track or overlook someone
  • How to recognize when someone is flirting with you
  • How you can flirt back (and stop being relegated to the ‘friend zone’!)
  • How you can confidently start conversations with attractive strangers
  • How you can build an invisible shield against rejection
  • Specific tools and practical techniques for confidence building

End of Programme Results:

  • You will be your best, most confident selfFlirtology fearless flirting shopping tour
  • You will know more precisely the type of partner you are seeking
  • You will have a game plan for where s/he is hanging out and how to meet them
  • You will know how to approach anyone you want with fear
  • You will know how to start a conversation
  • And how to flirt with intent (‘Friend Zone’, no more!)

After flirt coaching with me, you will walk away feeling that flirting is fun, your life is fulfilling and that you can have it all! But don’t take my word for it, have a look at my work as the flirt dating coach for The Telegraph, Stella Magazine, and Grazia.

Flirt Dating Package Options:

Our flirt dating coaching packages are completely personalized to help you with your goals. By using the Flirtology 6-Step System©, we will streamline your approach. No more messing around, simply targeting your energy for the best results. The first three sessions are usually held one week apart (weekdays, weekends and evenings available) in order to get you used to the Flirtology approach. This helps to reinforce new patterns of behaviour about how you want to be, and how you want Leading Flirt dating coach, Jean Smith, is coaching a man on how to flirtto relate to others, in the world. Additionally, dependant on your personal challenges, tasks will be assigned to you to help you focus throughout your week. The remaining sessions will be used according to the plan that we develop together, but they never expire. Many people, especially those on the 9 session package, find it useful to use the last few sessions to see me every 4-6 weeks. This helps to reinforce, refresh and recalibrate, the new, positive ways of interacting with the world. Below are several options, which one do you think will get you the results you are looking for?

Flirt Dating Coaching Intensive (choose between 6 or 9 sessions)

-5 or 8, 1 hour online sessions with Jean, wherever you are in the world. (The practical session outlined below will be used as online sessions should you not be able to meet Jean in person due to location)

Over the course of these sessions, here are some things we look at:

    • Where you can find potential, like-minded partners
    • Your list of 5 ‘Deal-Breakers’ for a potential partner, to keep you focused
    • How to recognize when someone is flirting with you
    • How you can flirt back (and stop being relegated to the ‘friend zone’!)
    • How you can confidently start conversations with attractive strangers
    • How you can build an invisible shield against rejection
    • Specific tools and practical techniques for getting your confidence up

    -1 Practical session out and about during the day with Jean, 60 min

    Learn how to make the most of opportunities in your day to day life, by going out in this one-on-one session with Jean. You will learn how to approach and start up conversations with strangers on the street by asking for directions, recommendations, etc. You would never think that approaching strangers is so easy and fun. Then, learn how to turn these conversations into a date!

    Please choose either 6 or 9 sessions with Jean. The above programme is an example of what works for most people, but they can be adapted to fit your individual needs. For example, if you are travelling from other countries to work with me, we can organise an intensive two or three day workshop and do all the sessions over a short period of time, including the practical sessions. If you are interested in doing the programme with Jean, but first would like the option of purchasing one session first to see if we are a good fit, please email me to arrange a session. But, please be aware that you will need to continue with the full programme in order to see any lasting benefits.

    flirt dating coach, Jean Smith

    6 sessions – £900 *3 monthly installments of £300

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    jean teaches single people how to flirt as a flirt dating coach9 sessions – £1,350 *3 monthly installments of £450

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