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‘I can’t believe you’ve taught me how to feel comfortable flirting!’

‘I can’t believe you’ve taught me how to feel comfortable flirting!’

Jean is a social and cultural anthropologist, specialising in flirting behaviour and human interactions. She has been featured in the international media for two decades and has just had her second book published by Penguin Random House.

Tedx Talk – The Science of Flirting: Being a H.O.T. A.P.E. (6.5 million views)

The Guardian Newspaper Master class – London

Flirtologist Jean Smith workshop on flirting in the streets CBS report story news

CBS News – Fearless Flirting Tours

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For those confounded by love

Personal sessions where we look through layers of behaviour to explore how you can improve your search for a partner and build your confidence in flirting

Using a range of techniques drawing on anthropological methods and research, I help you target a range of problems, such as where to search for a potential partner and behaviours which are preventing you from being successful

I have helped over 300 people pinpoint where they have been going wrong and achieve better flirting outcomes


For those who want a quick insight into the skill of how to approach in everyday life

Join me on a night out on my Flirting Tours with up to 12 other flirting students. You will learn how to approach and flirt with anyone you want without the fear of rejection

I will arm you with top tips and techniques to build your flirting skills in everyday locations: the coffee shop, the supermarket, the art gallery

Over 5,000 people have joined me on this fun, easy and social flirting adventure, mainly in London, but from time to time on location: Melbourne, Copenhagen, Chicago, Edinburgh and Manchester


Stop Swiping, Start Talking and Find Love

A step-by-step guide to mastering the art of flirting

  • How can I tell when someone is flirting with me?
  • Why can’t I flirt with someone I find attractive?
  • How do I avoid rejection?
  • How can I be a more confident flirt?

Flirtology is THE dating guide for the twenty-first century. In an age of swiping left and right, and hiding behind online profiles, this book shows you how to replace connectivity with connection.